DOUBLE DATING = DOUBLE TRAGEDY:

A word of advice to you......

Double dating or having multiple relationships simultaneously is not a sign that you are handsome, beautiful, gifted or great; it’s a sign of irresponsibility.

A responsible person is faithful to someone he/she loves for the rest of his/her life! Don't be carried away by that sugar coated mouth! It is not all that glitter that's gold!

Has God given you someone? Is he/she a child of God? Does he/she fear God? Start building your relationship! Life is not a rush, one step at a time

Anyone who is madly in love with two people at the same time is never in love! He/she just is in infatuation! In fact he/she needs deliverance! The test of true love is "FOCUS". Yes I said FOCUS

True Love is focused on only one person. An infatuated individual may be "in love" with two or more persons simultaneously!¬ Something I term stupidity in the highest order!

If you don't know the difference between LOVE & INFATUATION, you will destroy others' lives and your own! That's why psychiatric hospitals are full with people whose hearts are broken! Some have committed suicide, some never believe in love again and some have made up their mind never to trust anyone again or get married! This is serious! Stop toying with people' emotion!

Don't double date no matter the pressure! That's, don't be involved in two relationships at the same time. Many singles have missed their miracles because of this act of unfaithfulness! Double dating lowers your integrity and lays a wrong foundation for your marriage. Avoid it!

Stay blessed!
 

Some things the singles cannot see, and the married are not telling them. MUST READ!!!

We live in a dissatisfied generation.

Those who are short in height wished they were taller.
The white is tanning their bodies trying to get dark, the blacks are
bleaching trying to get white. The young are tinting their hair white, the old are dyeing their hair black.

Singles are posing with wedding rings,those married forget to wear
it, those with beards are shaving off, those with none are using
methylated spirit to grow some! hmmmmmm

Today,I have a story to tell. Are you ready for it? Here we go. Once
upon a time, (time – time), when I was single,I looked forward to
marriage. My married friend also once said, Now that I am married, I missed the time I was single!
End of story!

Singles will hardly believe that because all in their mind is to get
married so that everything can change. I have seen and learnt from the successful in marriage and here are a few things I have learned that might bless you if you are still single.

1. Marriage will not make you happier. Be happy before marriage. Marriage has no power in itself beyond the two people involved.

2. Marriage will not change you. Change begins inwardly. Marriage
is not a change agent. Marriage will not improve your attitudes, it
will expose them. Marriage does not eliminate your weaknesses, it
will amplify them. Start working on your attitudes and weaknesses
before marriage.

3. Marriage will not cure loneliness.There are several married people who have their spouses with them by the second, but are extremely lonely. Loneliness is more of a state of mind than availability of people around you. The loneliest people in the world are sometimes the ones with large number of fans and crowd around them. Only God’s word can cure the root cause of loneliness.

4. Marriage will not take pressures away, it will probably bring more. You have one more life to manage. If you cannot manage yours and you venture into marriage, it will be a disaster.
When the children start coming, there will be more pressures.
Learn to take pressures head on by casting your care on Jesus and
refusing to worry like the scripture advises.

5. Marriage is not all about sex. Ask somebody who is married.
Yes, sex is a marital glue, a healing balm in the soul for couples, and a blessing that keeps couples together. But it is not like you think, sex in the morning, afternoon and evening. 
Average couples actually make love twice or thrice in a week. However, the
more frequent it is for married couples, the better for them.

6. Your spouse will not be a magician neither is he the Holy Spirit.
He/she will be a human being with his own issues. You will always need God. He might be very anointed on the pulpit and filled with God’s glory while she is ministering in the choir, but at home he or she is a human being with all the weaknesses complete. Learn to separate the office or position of your spouse from his or her person at home.

7. Marriage is not all about kisses, flowers, cinemas, cakes,
chocolates and vacations alone. It is about cooking, pampers, crying baby, working, paying school fees and so on. It is about budgets, plans, strategies and divine wisdom. It is about submission to your husband who you sometimes think is hard, insensitive and unloving. It is about loving your wife who you
sometimes think is stubborn, does not want to be corrected and can nag from morning till next day.


Read, share and learn. Have a blessed week. cheers!!

FOR THE LADIES

LADIES: Every man has a vision..whether that vision is powerful, ausome, sinful, dusty, or foolish...his vision is alive in him. When you take on a husband/fiancé, you are in the same welcoming his vision into your reality. As a helpmate, your job is to help him to accomplish his vision, all the while managing your own.... but did you look at what you were signing up for before you signed on, or were you distracted by money, fame, cars, muscles and looks? If you would only wait on GOD to send your husband to you, you can be a helpmate that helps your husband do something positive and productive, not sinful and deadly. In addition, the man that GOD has for you has a vision that matches up to your vision, and when the two of you come together, that vision is made perfect and it can't help but to manifest. Nevertheless, many women will spend their lives trying to help their husbands come to CHRIST, fight their visions all the while the man that they could have married is off somewhere giving his obedient wife a detailed tour of CHRIST'S heart...a view that she's never seen before. Remember this...men are common; men from GOD are not. A man can be found on every corner, but a husband will find his wife in CHRIST. Building stereotypes and perceptions will do you no good. There is too much pretence, faking and hypocrisy....therefore church, looks and tongues speaking alone is not enough. BE LED. God bless you!