ADVICE TO LADIES!

LADIES!! There is one thing I want you to understand about men! 

Now, when you post half-naked pictures of yourself on facebook, be it you doing a sexy pose, or showing us your cleavage, or lying suggestively on your bed... The only thing you are doing is making some men lust after you. 

I know you will feel excited about the 100+ likes you will receive...and you will even pretend to 'nkt' when a guy says he wants you...when in reality you are so excited. One thing you should know, NONE of those guys who will like that photo love you!

They are in lust with you! Infact they loathe you, and none of them would take you home to be a wife! Men, both good and bad admire ladies who dress decently and respect themselves! 

Decent clothing that reveal less about you make them love and respect you! It tells them u r a decent and virtueos lady 

learn and be a virtuouswoman..

Called to Bless Others!

“Each of you should use whatever gift you have received to serve others, as faithful stewards of God’s grace in its various forms.” 1 Peter 4:10 (TNIV)

Beginning in the late 1960’s, young women set in motion a radical mindset change about expectations for employment. Rather than just deciding on a job, more women began to aim for careers outside of traditional female vocations. As a result, college enrollment increased for young women and continues to do so even today. For 2012/13 high school graduates, the female college enrollment rate was about 72.3 percent or even more worldwide.

Many women are fortunate to have these life choices. While some pursue careers in the business world, others opt to enjoy the merits of being a stay-at-home mom. In choosing your path, Mother Teresa’s words ring true: “It’s not about what you do, but how much love you put into it that matters.” In a society that generally rewards professional success while downplaying the important role of motherhood, women often struggle with justifying this choice. 

In her book, Changing Your World One Diaper at a Time, author, Marla Taviano, articulates this precise perplexity. “Raise your hand if you’re a stay-at-home mom with a college degree in something other than motherhood. Wow - that’s a lot of you. Now, raise your hand if you think motherhood is a valuable and worthy endeavor. Good - all hands up. We know what we do is important, right? We don’t need a paycheck to validate our worth, right? We know how significant our “career choice” is, right?”

When I fall into the trap of accomplishment-comparison, His words in scripture bring a calming sense of purpose to my life. I’m reminded that God himself chose me for this most important role. “It is God himself who has made us what we are and given us new lives from Christ Jesus; and long ages ago he planned that we should spend these lives in helping others.” Ephesians 2:10 (TLB)  

As I love and nurture the children He placed into my care, I realize there’s no profession quite as significant as modeling a Christ-centered life to impressionable minds. 

Regardless of your path, domestic or professional, are you deliberate about accomplishing God’s call to bless others? Prayerfully put your life before Christ, be receptive to hearing His voice, and say “yes” to the role He has called you to fill. Remeber, you were called to bless others, you dont need titles and money to do that. Be blessed!

BEAUTY VRS WISDOM- COMPLETE WOMAN

A well scripted piece..: A woman once said "Beauty attracts men but wisdom keeps them. Elegance catches men's attention but intelligence convinces them. Nagging irritates men but 'constructive silence weakens them. The 'boy' in every man pumps out occasionally, the ability to handle this is a woman's truest maturity. Men have secret struggles and silent pains, should you ever find them out, you h...ave exhibited the greatest maturity. In the long-run your 'words' matters more to a man than your 'looks', so invest the right words. Earn a man's respect and he will consider you the yard stick for all his action. Learn to mold the moods of your man. Men will naturally give u their futures if they can recall your maturity in yesterday's issues... Women are everywhere but queens are scarce. Let the queen in you come alive and he will hold you in high esteem. God is wisdom. This is to all the beautiful women I know({})

FOR THE LADIES

LADIES: Every man has a vision..whether that vision is powerful, ausome, sinful, dusty, or foolish...his vision is alive in him. When you take on a husband/fiancé, you are in the same welcoming his vision into your reality. As a helpmate, your job is to help him to accomplish his vision, all the while managing your own.... but did you look at what you were signing up for before you signed on, or were you distracted by money, fame, cars, muscles and looks? If you would only wait on GOD to send your husband to you, you can be a helpmate that helps your husband do something positive and productive, not sinful and deadly. In addition, the man that GOD has for you has a vision that matches up to your vision, and when the two of you come together, that vision is made perfect and it can't help but to manifest. Nevertheless, many women will spend their lives trying to help their husbands come to CHRIST, fight their visions all the while the man that they could have married is off somewhere giving his obedient wife a detailed tour of CHRIST'S heart...a view that she's never seen before. Remember this...men are common; men from GOD are not. A man can be found on every corner, but a husband will find his wife in CHRIST. Building stereotypes and perceptions will do you no good. There is too much pretence, faking and hypocrisy....therefore church, looks and tongues speaking alone is not enough. BE LED. God bless you!