Some things the singles cannot see, and the married are not telling them. MUST READ!!!

We live in a dissatisfied generation.

Those who are short in height wished they were taller.
The white is tanning their bodies trying to get dark, the blacks are
bleaching trying to get white. The young are tinting their hair white, the old are dyeing their hair black.

Singles are posing with wedding rings,those married forget to wear
it, those with beards are shaving off, those with none are using
methylated spirit to grow some! hmmmmmm

Today,I have a story to tell. Are you ready for it? Here we go. Once
upon a time, (time – time), when I was single,I looked forward to
marriage. My married friend also once said, Now that I am married, I missed the time I was single!
End of story!

Singles will hardly believe that because all in their mind is to get
married so that everything can change. I have seen and learnt from the successful in marriage and here are a few things I have learned that might bless you if you are still single.

1. Marriage will not make you happier. Be happy before marriage. Marriage has no power in itself beyond the two people involved.

2. Marriage will not change you. Change begins inwardly. Marriage
is not a change agent. Marriage will not improve your attitudes, it
will expose them. Marriage does not eliminate your weaknesses, it
will amplify them. Start working on your attitudes and weaknesses
before marriage.

3. Marriage will not cure loneliness.There are several married people who have their spouses with them by the second, but are extremely lonely. Loneliness is more of a state of mind than availability of people around you. The loneliest people in the world are sometimes the ones with large number of fans and crowd around them. Only God’s word can cure the root cause of loneliness.

4. Marriage will not take pressures away, it will probably bring more. You have one more life to manage. If you cannot manage yours and you venture into marriage, it will be a disaster.
When the children start coming, there will be more pressures.
Learn to take pressures head on by casting your care on Jesus and
refusing to worry like the scripture advises.

5. Marriage is not all about sex. Ask somebody who is married.
Yes, sex is a marital glue, a healing balm in the soul for couples, and a blessing that keeps couples together. But it is not like you think, sex in the morning, afternoon and evening. 
Average couples actually make love twice or thrice in a week. However, the
more frequent it is for married couples, the better for them.

6. Your spouse will not be a magician neither is he the Holy Spirit.
He/she will be a human being with his own issues. You will always need God. He might be very anointed on the pulpit and filled with God’s glory while she is ministering in the choir, but at home he or she is a human being with all the weaknesses complete. Learn to separate the office or position of your spouse from his or her person at home.

7. Marriage is not all about kisses, flowers, cinemas, cakes,
chocolates and vacations alone. It is about cooking, pampers, crying baby, working, paying school fees and so on. It is about budgets, plans, strategies and divine wisdom. It is about submission to your husband who you sometimes think is hard, insensitive and unloving. It is about loving your wife who you
sometimes think is stubborn, does not want to be corrected and can nag from morning till next day.


Read, share and learn. Have a blessed week. cheers!!

Not All Christians, Pastors and Men of God Are the Same

 I have learned that you should never judge a person unless you have talked to them one on one or walked in their shoes for a while.

There are STILL God-fearing, Jesus-loving and Holy Spirit-filled Christians in the world today who, continue to STAND for the Truth; and who doggedly refuse to compromise on the altar of lust for money and material comfort. There are still some who serve God wholeheartedly without any issues and corruption, there exist educated, courteous, descent, virgins, virtuous and responsible men and women who boldly stand for God without compromise or fear.

Avoid the presumptuous sin of committing the fallacy of hasty generalization by tagging all ministers of the gospel and Christians as corrupt and compromised. Not all are the same, not everyone is deceived after lust and money.

What many people do not know is, When the enemy comes in like a flood GOD lifts up a standard against him. May God arise and his enemies be scattered: to walk in the flesh and to be led by it creates enmity between God and man. He takes no part in that. That which he takes no part in must depart. Be careful that you don't cause judgement to fall upon you swiftly. #PAYDAY IS COMING And some peoples pay won't be all that pleasing. 

Thank God for the lives of christians who still live a holy life, in this era where sin abounds and the dignity and santity of people are fading away, there still exist virgins, holy ones, descent boys and girls holding on strongly to the promises of God.

There is hope where GOD and GRACE is. As long as God's GRACE exist, Some will never bow to baal and compromise their faith.....NEVER!

GLORY TO GOD.....THANK GOD FOR GRACE!!

Be Content and Grateful with what you Have!!

I want you to carefully watch this video 

 Better to stop and take into consideration what and who is truly valuable in one's life. There is always something to be thankful for. Whatever you have and whoever you are, be grateful.

Better a handful with quietness than both hands full, together with toil and grasping for the wind. Ecclesiastes 4:6..

Life is not all about accumulation of things and wealth my dear. He who dies with the most money or the most toys, still dies. No one can take their money, houses, cars, friends or their collections with them to the grave.

In Job 1:21..Job said...“Naked I came from my mother's womb, and naked shall I return there. The Lord gave, and the Lord has taken away; Blessed be the name of the Lord.”

You see, Each day of life brings its own special gifts from the hand of GOD. View each day as the beginning of a new life, another day, another chance, greet the new day with confidence that this will be the best day of your life. “ Be happy just for the Life God has given you and the little money or one cloth you have.

The best way for a person to have happy thoughts is to count their blessings and not their cash. Money and material things are deemed important but they are not what truly matters. It is the wealth of family and friendship that will bring true happiness and contentment in your life.”

Always appreciate God and be thankful for who you are and what He has made you. Never be envious of anyone in this life. Be grateful and be content. Wake up each day filled with the joy of the Lord and simply appreciate what and who you are.

Stay blessed.

Cheers!

Revelational Knowledge!

Our greatest enemy is not the devil because Jesus was manifested to destroy the works of the devil. Paul said in order to not make the flesh become your enemy then put it under subjection. Therefore our greatest enemy is a lack of knowledge. In Hosea 4:6 God said "My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge: because thou hast rejected knowledge, I will also reject thee,......"

Note that God's people are destroyed not because they lack money,anointing or power but because they lack knowledge. They lack knowledge about God,the Word,the Holy Spirit,about spiritual authority,about giving,about the difference between Holiness and righteousness,about the times and seasons, they even lack knowledge about the Will of God concerning their life and finally the reason why they are on earth.

This kind of knowledge is not ascertained through formal and informal education but through the spirit of Revelation, Hence the word Revelational Knowledge

REASONS WHY SOME LADIES END UP SINGLE AND FRUSTRATED FOR LIFE!!!

1. Stop Giving Your Number Out To Every Dick & Harry! No man would want to propose marriage to a lady whose phone is always Talking and laughing with unserious calls. You may not be a playgirl, but he would judge you as one, and will likely flee at the slightest chance or disagreement.

2. Excessive makeup turns most decent and serious-minded men off- if you have observed, you will discover that most men dislike excessive makeup, and more don’t even like it at all; reason they often times discourage their true loved ones to do away with it cos it speaks ill of a lady even though so many men will applaud and complement you for looking like an Egyptian mummy. A slight makeup is okay; but if you are out for marriage, try always to look simple and natural, it will attract better men, decent and serious-minded, except you are still living in your high school Life and not thinking towards marriage.

3. You Give Everything Out During Dating- As a single lady who has not been taken to the altar, you need to reserve some things for your husband to be, especially your body, respect it and preserve it at all cost. In the past, men rushed to marry to get certain things or privileges they had been constantly denied while being single. Such privileges include and not limited to: constant sex and companionship, good food and tidied home, etc. But today, a single man gets even the best and of course more of constant sex, good food and excellent home- keeping more than his married counterparts, so tell me how the hell you want him to desire to marry you when you have given him virtually everything he desires from a wife while being his girlfriend? And the most painful part of it all is that he knows that you are prepared to cut down on sex supply, cooking, home-keeping, etc once he marries you, so why would he not want you to remain his girlfriend for life?

4. You Package Yourself Wrongly- in your attempt to look sexy, adorable and maybe appealing to guys, you have derailed from appealing to appalling. In fact you look more whorish than modest; more distractive than attractive, and more disgusting than adorable. Your dressing style determines who gets attracted to you most times. If you dress high school, only high school-thinking guys will be attracted to you, and if you dress excessively sexy and provocative, only randy men will come to you for urgent satisfaction of their immediate sex urge, so don’t be fooled by media hyping of certain kinds of dressing, they are meant for certain set of ladies you wouldn’t like to be associated with, be careful.
Remember, not all clothes that look sexy are good for a seriously searching for a soul mate single lady.

5. Your Friends Run Your Life- how do you expect to find a husband when you still allow your clique of friends to be dictating which man you meet is worthy of your love and which is not? When will you wake up and face the fact that those your best friends even though they cherish you, wouldn’t want you to marry before them or to marry the best man?

6. Many African ladies now dislike cooking and home chores just because they had been totally brainwashed by movies showcasing men playing the role of women in a family, and due to excessive exposure to modern media that promotes gender-equality in a destructive way that’s aimed at destroying the unique African family setting that made our previous African marriages everlasting and envious to the westerns. Now, with this attitude, how do you expect a African man to desire to marry when he knows he is only buying more headache and trouble than helper for himself? There is no gainsay that some guyz are just difficult to please. Every rule has its exceptions.

Be decent, be modest. Men love Simplicity and Sincerity. Boys love Flamboyance and Extravagance.

Don’t be gullible by the foreign culture on the media. Be a Lady that attracts Men, not Boys

Cheers!